Keep reading about the perfect online dating messages that get responses. In our modern world we arrange almost all of our life on the internet. Dating someone is not an exception. Insider Monkey recently published an article about this topic giving us some very useful tips.
If you begin your message with a simple “‘hey” for sure you won’t get any answers, you had better stop writing this. It is not creative enough and ultimately that you are not just that interested in them. If you were, you would think something better, right? You wouldn’t want to waste your time on a person like that, so they don’t want to do that as well. Now, “hey” isn’t out of the question if you follow up that with something else. Personalizing the first message always helps. When you are writing the message, include the person’s first name (if provided). It is very important that you should grab the other’s attention. What is always a good idea is to read the other person’s profile and start with something in common. For example if the other like reading you can speak about it too.
Now without a further ado let’s see what Insider Monkey has investigated for us. We have picked three messages from their list. The first one is some basic text. “What’s up (insert name) what are you up to Sunday night?” The reason we start with this one is that it ticks all the right boxes. Unusual greeting, personalized and it is a question. Then it is a great idea to mention some common interests. “Wow, you like (insert movie title) too? It is my favorite for (reasons). What other movies do you like?” Works great with books and music as well. Actually this is the same as you would chat with someone on the train, bus, airplane etc. It is a very warm feeling if we meet a person who is a careful reader. I mean this person really listens to us. “Hi! I came across your profile and I thought it was interesting — especially the part where you mention that you play tennis. I used to play too, but it’s been a while. Do you play competitively?” A message like this proves you have taken some time and read the person’s profile instead of just getting through their pictures. So – what are you waiting for? Try these tips and you will be successful.
For any further useful tips read Insider Monkey’s article about 10 perfect online dating messages that get responses.