Dates became too expensive lately, which might be the reason why there are fewer dates each year. But, if you are creative enough, you will find the way to make it work with less money. If not, may I present to you 17 cheap date ideas in NYC?
I always hated dates. Not because I am not romantic at all or because I don’t want to socialize, but I am a more spontaneous girl that doesn’t like being under the pressure. Besides, there are too high expectations and, at the end of the day, you can end up both broke and disappointed.
I am more of the girl who will get to know someone while they are still just friends and jump ahead if we click right. Don’t get me wrong, I am the kind of girl who loves spending 4 hours in front of the mirror to get ready to go out, but I prefer spending my free time with the man that I love in jeans and sweatshirts because I enjoy more casual and natural environment.
Besides, most of us are working just to survive. We have enough money for food, bills, and each now and then to buy some new clothes or something for the house. Imagine yourself being on several dates with different people in a month where you had to spend at least $100? Well, guess what, even if you spend $500 on a single date, it still doesn’t guarantee that it will be a second date. On the other hand, if you show your date that you are capable of spending that much money for a night and get her used to the idea that she will only enjoy expensive dinners and clubs, how will you explain to her in a month that you don’t have any money left even for a hotdog? Remember one thing, girls are not that into money. If you run into some girl that is, turn your back and go because there isn’t even the slightest chance that she is with you because of who you are.
Women prefer men who are creative, who make them laugh, who are financially and mentally stable, responsible, and ready to commit. Not everyone is obsessed with money. Many women out there find it enough just for men to have a job and at least the average salary so that they can work with during the month. They need someone who is willing to sacrifice for them and their potential future kids. And, in most cases, that is all that matters.
So, next time you plan a date, don’t beat your hand against the wall because you don’t know how much money you will spend but surprise your girl with some of the 17 cheap date ideas in NYC.